Why do we find this so flipping difficult? Comparisons are one of the few things that I HATE about Western Society. We’ve got money, security, freedom of expression, countless opportunities if you work hard yet its through these distractions that we continue to wish ourselves into something else. These things makes us way too busy. Too busy to process life events, and changes and hurts that we experience as complex human beings. If you give yourself time to breathe once in a while, WHICH looks different for everybody, you might even experience bliss. For me its trashy TV. Often reality. Sometimes its hardcore metal music and a glass of wine. But we all need something to unwind to. If you invest in this downtime, your ‘busy’ self can work harder, last longer, experience life better and your soul with thank you for it.